Day 4: Album 4 of 10 that have greatly influenced my taste in music and life. No explanations or reviews, just album covers.

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Day 4: Album 4 of 10 that have greatly influenced my taste in music and life. No explanations or reviews, just album covers.

If you aren’t subscribed to Ross Catrow‘s Good Morning, RVA you really should be. It’s a great daily recap of significant RVA news and insights from a dude who’s paying attention.
Today’s issue captures a lot of my thoughts and head scratching as Northam tries to steer Virginia toward Phase 1 of reopening on May 15th:
This is incredibly frustrating. What was the point of announcing all of those data-based guidelines if Northam just had his sights set on May 15th anyway? What happens if the data don’t cooperate and get in line for his new two-week deadline? Northam’s also switching his messaging to “safer at home” instead of “stay at home,” but, as always, safer at home for whom? Phase One sends employees at “restaurants, recreation, and personal care business such as hair salons and spas”—mostly working-class people—back to work. Folks who are privileged enough to have good insurance and can work from home are encouraged to continue doing so. Here’s a quote from the Governor, take a second and think about who the “you” in this quote is: “Here’s the bottom line…You’ll be able to get your hair cut, but you’ll need an appointment. It means you can go out to eat again, but restaurants will use less of their seating to spread people out. Phase One means more retail establishments can be open, but they’ll have to operate at lower capacity.”
“Think about who the ‘you’ in this quote is…”
These aren’t high paying jobs with great insurance benefits that are opening up.
There is also the issue of, sure, things are open, but where are the kids going to go?
Carberry can’t work because there’s no one to watch her 4-year-old son, Robbie. Robbie’s child care center is closed because of the coronavirus pandemic, and Carberry’s family lives far away. Carberry is a single mother with less than a dollar in the bank.
“I get the emails to see if I’m available. I told them, if I had child care, I’d be there,” Carberry told HuffPost. Before COVID-19, in a pinch, Carberry could find someone in the neighborhood to watch Robbie. Now, with social distancing, that’s just not possible. “It’s not like I can reach out to the church and find some ladies to fill in,” she said. “Nobody wants to get their family infected.”
In Virginia, daycare facilities remain open, but are bound by the state’s social distancing guidelines and restrictions on groups larger than 10 people. Classrooms that used to hold 30 children can now only hold 8 and two caregivers. Facilities that used to have 140 children are now at 40 and hard pressed to open to more due to spacing restrictions.
This is going to hurt people who are being told to come back to work but simply can’t due to lack of childcare – potentially impacting unemployment benefits.
The solution isn’t to just throw open the doors of schools and daycares (see reaction to Dr. Oz for more on that…) but policy wonks are going to have to figure out how to structure these Phases in a way that doesn’t leave families with children on the outside looking in.
I miss my friends. And going out.
The thing is, I didn’t exactly get out much to spend a whole lot of time with friends prior to the whole social distancing, stay-at-home, avoid the plague thing.
I guess I more miss having the ability to see my friends and go out and do things.
Or not having the ability because of regular day-to-day things, not ‘rona stuff.
Virginia is on course to begin Phase 1 of reopening May 15th which will mean something, I guess. Not sure what’s being seen in the numbers behind the scenes because on their face we’re still seeing way low testing in the state, nearly 1,000 new cases a day, and a doubling of deaths over the last two weeks in numbers that took nearly six weeks to get to to begin with. But maybe this is the worst of it. For now.
Constant Contact is the GoDaddy of email marketing.
Day 3: Album 3 of 10 that have greatly influenced my taste in music and life. No explanations or reviews, just album covers.

The bookcase has become the preferred background for applying a patina of authority to an amateurish video feed. Imagine that you are a member of the expert class — the kind of person invited to pontificate on television news programs.
10 minutes parent teacher conference by phone when the 5yo only spent 5 weeks in the grading period actually in school was weird. Sammy loved hearing from his teacher again and it was good to hear that he was doing well and that we shouldn’t be sweating this homeschooling stuff too hard as long as we keep doing what we’re doing. Which, admittedly, is a lot less than we’d like, but we are where we are.
Via Chris O’Donnell, Kevin Kelly shares 68 Bits of Unsolicited Advice for his 68th birthday. Some gems:
• Being enthusiastic is worth 25 IQ points.
• Don’t be afraid to ask a question that may sound stupid because 99% of the time everyone else is thinking of the same question and is too embarrassed to ask it.
• Gratitude will unlock all other virtues and is something you can get better at.
• Reading to your children regularly will bond you together and kickstart their imaginations.
• Pros are just amateurs who know how to gracefully recover from their mistakes.
• Don’t be the smartest person in the room. Hangout with, and learn from, people smarter than yourself. Even better, find smart people who will disagree with you.
• Trust me: There is no “them”.
• Optimize your generosity. No one on their deathbed has ever regretted giving too much away.
• The Golden Rule will never fail you. It is the foundation of all other virtues.
• If you are not falling down occasionally, you are just coasting.
• Perhaps the most counter-intuitive truth of the universe is that the more you give to others, the more you’ll get. Understanding this is the beginning of wisdom.
• Friends are better than money. Almost anything money can do, friends can do better. In so many ways a friend with a boat is better than owning a boat.
• You are what you do. Not what you say, not what you believe, not how you vote, but what you spend your time on.
• When you die you take absolutely nothing with you except your reputation.
• When crisis and disaster strike, don’t waste them. No problems, no progress.
• How to apologize: Quickly, specifically, sincerely.
• Don’t ever respond to a solicitation or a proposal on the phone. The urgency is a disguise.
• The universe is conspiring behind your back to make you a success. This will be much easier to do if you embrace this pronoia.
The full list is worth a read and consideration. Keeping a list of advice and pointers sounds like a fun exercise…
Beautiful weather meant getting out this weekend for some fresh air. Everyone else had the same idea in some areas. Let’s try and keep social distancing in place, folks.
Day 2: Album 2 of 10 that have greatly influenced my taste in music and life. No explanations or reviews, just album covers.

We’ve made it, y’all, 50 days!
What do you get someone to celebrate 50 days of self-isolation?
50 days ago the Kenney Family broke off from the world after schools closed and work-from-home policies went into effect. It’s been an adventure and we’re all varying degrees of stir-crazy and miss places, but it’s also been a lot easier than any of us could have anticipated 50 days ago. We’re blessed with two good boys, flexible jobs we can do remotely, and enough room in the house where we can each get the time we need to focus when we need it.
We’re luckier than a lot of folks out there. And it’s not over yet. But here’s hoping there are more days of this behind us than ahead.